Recognising Stress: 10 Symptoms and 6 Effective Relief Methods

Stress is a common challenge for many urban dwellers. In bustling cities, particularly in fast-paced environments like Hong Kong, the pressures of work, interpersonal relationships, and daily life can leave one physically and mentally exhausted. Prolonged stress not only impacts mood but can also lead to various health conditions. Understanding the signs of stress and learning effective stress management techniques can significantly benefit your overall well-being. This article explores how to identify stress levels through a simple self-assessment and provides six practical methods to relieve stress effectively. 

Sources of Stress 

Stress can stem from various aspects of life, including: 

Workplace Stress: Heavy workloads, tight deadlines, poor working environments, long commutes or strained workplace relationships can all contribute to stress. 

Family-Related Stress: Issues such as family conflicts, caregiving responsibilities, or financial difficulties can be significant stressors. 

Social Stress: Stress may arise from interpersonal relationships, societal expectations, or social changes. 

10 Common Symptoms of Work-Related Stress 

When stress becomes overwhelming, it may manifest in one or more of the following symptoms: 

• Headaches: Chronic stress can cause chronic headaches or migraines. For instance, long hours under pressure at work may trigger persistent headaches. 
• Insomnia: Stress often disrupts sleep. Anxiety about upcoming events can make it difficult to fall asleep or stay asleep. 
• Stomach Pain: High stress levels can lead to excess stomach acid or discomfort. Tight deadlines at work, for example, might result in stomach aches. 
• Chest Pain: Sudden increases in stress may cause chest tightness or pain, such as before a significant presentation or interview. 
• Emotional Instability: Stress can lead to mood swings, irritability, or feelings of sadness. For example, minor issues at work might provoke disproportionate anger. 
• Fatigue: Persistent stress often results in physical and mental exhaustion. Even without overtime, a demanding work week may leave you feeling drained. 
• Difficulty Concentrating: Stress can impair focus and productivity. You may find yourself distracted, such as checking your phone frequently when preparing an important report. 
• Muscle Tension: Stress can cause stiffness in areas like the shoulders and back, particularly after long hours at a desk. 
• Appetite Changes: Stress may lead to overeating or loss of appetite. For instance, some people turn to comfort food during stressful periods. 
• Anxiety: Persistent worry and unease are common signs of chronic stress, such as when facing performance pressure. 

Understanding Stress Levels 

The stress index is a method used to assess the level of stress, helping us identify its sources and severity. It can be evaluated through questionnaires, self-assessments, or professional evaluations conducted by doctors or psychologists. 

Self-Test for Stress 

If you're unsure whether you're under high stress, try this simple self-assessment based on a stress measurement scale provided by the Hong Kong Mental Health Association. Rate each statement according to your experience: 0 = "Never" , 1 = "Occasionally",  2 = "Frequently" .

1. Feeling overwhelmed by too much work. 
2. Feeling rushed, as if every second counts (e.g., crossing the street on a red light, walking or speaking quickly). 
3. Constantly thinking about work, with no time for leisure. 
4. Easily irritated when facing setbacks. 
5. Worrying about others' opinions of your performance. 
6. Feeling unappreciated by your boss or family. 
7. Concerned about financial situations. 
8. Persistent headaches, stomach aches, or back pain. 
9. Relying on smoking, alcohol, medication, or snacks to manage anxiety. 
10. Using sleeping pills to fall asleep. 
11. Losing your temper with family, friends, or colleagues. 
12. Interrupting others during conversations. 
13. Lying awake at night, preoccupied with thoughts. 
14. Feeling unable to achieve perfection in your tasks due to workload. 
15. Feeling guilty for relaxing during downtime. 
16. Acting impatiently or impulsively, then regretting it. 
17. Believing you shouldn’t indulge in enjoyment. 

Add up your scores to determine your total stress index.  

0-10 points: Low level of stress but may indicate a lack of stimulation or motivation in life. 

11-15 points: Moderate stress, manageable but occasionally overwhelming. 

16 points or higher: High level of stress, requiring identification of stressors and solutions. 

Note: This self-test is a reference tool and does not replace professional medical or psychological assessments. If stress persists, seek advice from a psychologist promptly.

6 Effective Stress-Relief Techniques 

To manage stress, consider these six strategies recommended by MindWorX psychologists: 

Slow Down

Practise mindfulness by slowing your pace and focusing on the present. For example, during meals, chew slowly and avoid distractions like using your phone, enhancing your enjoyment of flavours and textures. Similarly, pay attention to the sensation of your steps while walking or fully engage in conversations by listening intently. These mindful habits not only relieve stress but also improve life satisfaction. 

• Deep Breathing

Find a quiet space to practise deep breathing. Sit or stand comfortably, focus on your breath, inhale slowly to expand your chest and abdomen, pause, and exhale gently. Repeat several times to relax your mind and body. 

• Muscle Relaxation Techniques

In a comfortable position, tense and relax different muscle groups, starting from your toes and working up to your head. Hold each muscle group tightly for about 10 seconds before releasing. This contrast between tension and relaxation helps alleviate stress. 

Connection with Self

Reflect through activities like meditation or spending time alone to listen to your inner voice. This enhances self-awareness and self-acceptance. 

Relationship

• Building Relationships

Cultivate healthy relationships by sharing interests with family, friends, or colleagues and offering mutual support during challenging times. Strong interpersonal connections provide emotional support and reduce stress. 

• Pet Companionship 

Caring for a pet offers unconditional love and companionship. Interaction with pets can alleviate stress and loneliness while fostering a sense of responsibility. 

Recharge your Mind and Body

Regular rest and relaxation are essential. Incorporate activities like watching comedies, attending social gatherings, or engaging in light exercise such as walking or jogging to regain focus, restore energy and manage stress.

Pursue Hobbies 

Enjoy activities such as hiking, gardening, listening to music, or exploring art to add positivity to daily life. Regular physical activities enhance physical health.  

• Connect with Nature 

Spend time outdoors, whether walking in a park, hiking, or strolling along the beach, to relax and reconnect with the natural world. These help reduce stress while boosting your mood.  

• Listening to Music and Enjoying Art 

Engaging in activities like listening to music or participating in artistic pursuits, such as painting or visiting exhibitions, enriches your sensory experiences and unleashes creativity, which is highly beneficial for mental health. 

• Exercising

Regular physical activity, such as swimming, running, or practising yoga, helps maintain physical fitness and serves as an effective way to release stress and boost energy levels. 

Prioritising "Me-Time" 

• Meditation

Set aside regular time to meditate, clear your mind, and achieve deep relaxation. Guided audio or a quiet environment can help.

• Journaling:

Writing daily journals offers a way to process emotions and organise thoughts, enhancing self-awareness. 

• Learning to Say No

Protect your time and energy by politely declining unnecessary demands, which can prevent excessive stress and maintain life balance. 

Stress is an unavoidable part of life but managing it effectively is key to maintaining good mental and physical health. Remember, seeking help is not a sign of weakness; it’s a responsible step towards self-care. If stress continues to affect your well-being, consider visiting MindWorX in Central. Our team of psychologists and psychiatrists can provide personalised mental health care. Together, we can combat stress and embrace a healthier life. 

Reference

1. 香港心理衛生會. 壓力測試. Retrieved 20 October,2023 from https://www.mhahk.org.hk/index.php/pressuretesting/